Santo Domingo (Espaillat) 14 - Marriage

Santo Domingo (Espaillat) 14 - Marriage

Sometimes, the special things in life require a little bit of waiting, and then waiting a little more. Wilson's baptism fell through that was supposed to be on Saturday. He called us on Tuesday and explained to us that he needs a little more time to arrange some small things that he's dealing with. He was still good with his goals and everything, he was just worried with a situation he has that he would fall after. We explained to him everything we could to try and comfort his pre-baptism fears but we really felt like it would be best to give him the time he needs so it can be a great and satisfying experience rather than something rushed. So, even though it was one of the hardest things I've done because of how much I care for the guy, we're giving him the time he needs.

It's really been a process with the investigators we have. There have been moments where, just out of the sheer work and somehow everything delaying or postponing itself, I've wanted to give in. I've wondered, nights before, if I'm truly making an impact out here. Would I be of better use back home? Am I even a missionary of success? Despite the beautiful moments one has had in the past, one always wants more. And more often than not, we forget or overlook the little changes and blessings we play a part in.

Fraileen and his family back in Villa Agricolas. Saw a lot of people I love and it was a great night. 

I was able to visit Villa Agricolas, my old area, again. It was there that I saw the delayed fruits (you could say) of the work the Lord did through my companion and I in the short time I was there. I was able to baptize the son of a less active father Elder Maatatia and I worked to reactivate. It was such a spiritual experience. To see that man still fighting and active now in the church after the many visits that we gave him filled my heart with joy. Erika, who was a lost teenager in a religiously seperated family, is now going to Seminary and fulfilling her spiritual responsibilities with God. Julia, the mother and the matriarch of a once-involved family in the Gospel that forgot the simple things, is now the Relief Society President of many members in need. Those closest to my heart that I shared and taught while there -- Frank and Eliany and Maireny -- are active and happy in the Church despite many difficult trials. When I focus on the numbers or compare myself with others, maybe I misunderstand what I'm really here to do. But when I try to look at the small changes and the love people develop for the Gospel, that's when I believe I truly understand my purpose.
 

MARRIAGE OF ENRIQUE AND MIRIAM!!!!!!!! One of the best days of my life.

Nothing like a little public affection. "BESO! BESO! BESO!" 

Also, another absolutely amazing thing that happened was ENRIQUE AND MIRIAM GOT MARRIED!!! It made me so happy to see the love and joy they have for each other and that their main purpose for it all is to be able to be baptized as a family. We had a super sweet celebration in the church too with some gifts from us and the ward for them which included photos in frames of their marriage and the temple here in the Dominican Republic. One of the best and most satisfying days of my mission and a miracle from God.

Best Dominican cake ever.  Along with two framed gift photos (from the Ward and us) to the Rodriguez Family. It was a super awesome celebration - with calamari, tons of good food (that wasn't rice and beans and meat), and everyone was dancing bachata hahah (besides us, of course. But as soon as I get home, bachata on replay, yes sir!)

We also received some really inspired references from the members this week and three of them came to church so we'll see where everything goes with them.

Really enjoying the mission and loving the good and the hard things that come. Hope you all have a wonderful week.

Elder Graff